Steps 操作流程：

　　1. Be yourself.做真实的自己。

　　It's important to maintain self confidence by being yourself around girls. If you adopt an alternate personality to attract girls, you will eventually be weighed down with the feeling that your true self isn't good enough. It may help to develop and improve your social skills, but any girls that don't appreciate you for who you are don't deserve your attention.

　　在与女孩们相处的全过程中做自己、有着信心是十分关键的。假如你改变现状的个性化去吸引住他们得话，到头来你能觉得很迷失——由于真正的你很差到没法吸引住女孩。做真实的自己能够塑造你的人际交往技巧，一切不赏析你的女孩都不值你关心。

　　2. Respect all girls equally.公平地重视每一个女孩。

　　You stand a much better chance of making a good overall impression if you treat girls that don't interest you just as nicely as those that do. This doesn't mean that you need to talk to or flirt with every girl, but don't ignore them or treat them dismissively. Don't talk to a girl about other girls'attractiveness; it's distasteful and can degrade the girl's opinion of herself. You generally shouldn't talk about past relationships you've had, or other girls that interest you; it detracts from building a new relationship.

　　假如你将霸王龙和美女一视同仁得话，这会给他们产生刻骨铭心的印像，你也会因而获得更强的机遇。这并不代表着你得同每一个女孩瞎扯或挑逗，但请不要忽视霸王龙们的存有，更不必去瞧不起他们。不要在一个女生眼前讨论别的女孩的风采，这会让他们觉得厌烦，乃至小看自身。一般而言别扯你的这些风流往事，或别的的女朋友侯选人，这对创建新的关联是十分不好的。

　　3. Make eye contact.眉来眼去。

　　Many girls like it when you can't take your eyes off them, but not when you're staring at their boobs. Although there are some girls that may enjoy such attention, you won't offend anyone by focusing on her face instead. Do not ogle her. Just remember to use discretion and show proper respect.

　　许多 女生喜欢见到男孩子的眼光粘到自身的的身上，可是不必老盯住他们的乳房看，虽然有某些女孩的确有此爱好，你還是盯住他们的脸比较好，但千万别用色迷迷的目光。记牢眼光中应当表露出你谨慎及其尊重。

　　4. Make them feel special.让他们觉得很尤其。

　　Girls like it when you're forward but not in a creepy way. Smile at her in a way that's clear, friendly, and/or playful. If you feel compelled to honesty, you can offer a sincere compliment. For example, you could say "Did anyone ever tell you that you have a beautiful smile?" Eyes are another good one——they're not the easiest thing to notice, and it shows you were looking at her face. Select something good that is reserved for her only; it will make her feel wonderfully special, admired, and beautiful.[!--empirenews.page--]小标题[/!--empirenews.page--]　女孩们很赏析你的英勇，但不必吓住他们。单纯性友善乃至戏虐的笑容全是能够的。假如你期待能以诚相待一些，那麼能够真挚地奉承一下。比如，你能说，“有些人说过你的笑容很美丽动人吗？”双眼也是个非常好的挑选，即便 你没非常容易注意到，这还可以暗示着你一直在认真地看她的脸。挑选她特有的特性选择，这会让她觉得有着尤其的体会，感觉自身美丽迷人，受人挚爱。

　　5. Be a gentleman.做一个紳士。

　　Girls love guys that are polite and courteous. It's just a matter of doing simple things like holding doors open for them and being respectful in other ways. Some claim chivalry is dead, but if you believe that, then you're going to have some problems getting a girl's interest.

　　女孩们喜爱这些文质彬彬的男孩子。保证这一点也非常简单——帮他们开关门或是以诚相待。一些勇士时期的礼数早已落伍，假如你坚持不懈应用，这会让他们觉得很怪异，反倒会功亏一篑。

　　6. Make her laugh.让她开心高兴。

　　Being funny is one of the most attractive qualities a guy can have, and if you're not "handsome", a girl will usually overlook that! If you're not goofy but you have a very dry, sarcastic sense of humor, use that. Just watch your timing and try not to be too goofy, or you may make a fool of yourself. It's okay to tease her a little, but generally not about her appearance.

　　幽默是每一个男孩子都应具备的质量，对比于“酷帅”，女孩们更胜于此。假如你智力不低，并且还有着与众不同的幽默风趣，那麼虽然用来用吧。掌握机会也很重要，能够讥讽另一方，可是正常情况下不必拿她的长相来玩笑。www.

　　7.Notice when you're having a conversation and she seems uncomfortable, change the subject. 留意遇到女孩讨厌的话题讨论时，要变换话题讨论。

　　atch her movements, if she's shifting her weight a lot and not making eye contact, chances are she's uncomfortable.

　　注意她的行为，假如你发觉他们经常地转换姿态或是与你沒有目光的沟通交流，那么就表明他们对当今的话题讨论觉得不适感。

　　8. Recognize that physical contact should be limited by the state of your relationship. 肢体接触的范畴应依当今所在的关联而定。

　　Acquaintances——A handshake when introducing yourself is probably a reasonable limit for a first meeting. You can also subtly brush your hand against her hand or arm.

　　初见。第一次见面能够握挥手。你的手能够缓缓的滑过她的手或手臂。（免责协议：文章如涉及到著作內容、著作权和其他难题，请立即与大家联络，大家将在第一时间删掉內容，文章仅作参考）